2018年10月11日

somebody doesn't like

  Do and unit one. I try to remember one. Everybody doesn't have to love me. Not everybody has to love me or even like me. I don't necessarily like everybody. I know. So why should everybody else like

me? I enjoy being liked and being loved. But if somebody doesn't like me, I will still be okay and still feel like i'm an okay person. I cannot make somebody like me anymore than somebody can get me to like

them. I don't need approval all the time. If someone does not approve of me, I will still be okay to it is okay to make mistakes. Making mistakes is something we all do. And I am still a fine and worthwhile

person when I make them. There is no reason for me to get upset. When I make a mistake. I am trying. And if I make a mistake, i'm going to continue trying. I can handle making a mistake. It is okay for

others to make mistakes too.


  I will accept mistakes in myself and also mistakes that others make three other people are ok. And I am ok. people who do things I don't like are not necessarily bad people. They should not

necessarily be punished just because I don't like what they do or did. There is no reason why other people should be the way I want them to be. And there is no reason why I should be the way somebody else

wants me to be. people will be whatever they want to be. And I will be whatever I want to be. I cannot control other people or change them. They are who they are. We all deserve basic respect for. I don't

have to control things. I will survive if things are different than what I want them to be. I can accept things the way they are, accept people the way they are, and accept myself the way I am. There's no

reason to get upset. If I can't change things to fit my idea of how they ought to be. There is no reason why I should have to like everything. Even if I don't like it, I can live with it five, I am

responsible for my day. I am responsible for how I feel and what I do. Nobody can make me feel anything. If I have a rotten day, I am the one who allowed it to be that way. If I have a great day, I am the

one who deserves credit for being positive. It is not the responsibility of other people to change. So that I can feel better. I am the one who was in charge of my life six. I can handle it when things go

wrong. I don't need to watch out for things to go wrong.


  Things usually go just fine, and when they don't, I can handle it. I don't have to waste my energy worrying. The sky won't fall in. Things will be okay, seven. It is important to try. I can even

though I may be faced with difficult tasks, it is better to try them to avoid them. Avoiding a task does not give me any opportunities for success or joy, but trying does things worth having are worth the

effort. I might not be able to do everything, but I can do something eight. I am capable. I don't need someone else to take care of my problems. I am capable. I can take care of myself. I can make decisions

for myself. I can think for myself, I don't have to depend on somebody else to take care of me nine. I can change. I don't have to be a certain way because of what has happened in the past. Every day is a

new day. IT's silly to think I can't help being the way I am. Of course I can. I can change ten other people are capable. I can't solve other people's problems for them. I don't have to take on other

people's problems as if they were my own. I don't need to change other people or fix up their lives. They are capable and can take care of themselves and can solve their own problems. I can care and be of

some help, but I can't do everything for them. Eleven. I can be flexible. There is more than one way to do something more than one person has had good ideas that will work. There is no one and only best way.

Everybody has ideas that are worthwhile. Some may make more sense to me than others, but everyone's ideas are worth while. And everyone has something worthwhile to contribute.






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